When you come home from running errands and find the cleaning lady in your apartment, not on her usual day, coming out of the bathroom where the washing machine is kept, arms full of other people's laundry. Instead of being embarrassed at the idea of having been caught, she smiles up at me, says "Xin chào!" and briskly walks out of the apartment. This was after being sat down and lectured by the landlady and our real estate broker only last night about our high usage of electricity.
When you go shoe shopping, spend a good 10 minutes looking around, turn to the salesclerk who's been hovering over you like a hawk only to have her tell you (before you've even gotten a word out) "We have nothing for you here". "But I haven't even told you my size!", I exclaim. "We have nothing for you here", she repeats, smiling broadly.
When you're standing in line at the checkout and a lady blatantly cuts in line, then looks around at everyone else daring them to say anything to her. Everyone looks away, pretending they don't notice, except for me; I'm glaring at her. The guy in front of me turns to face me, staring me down, as if he's wishing I would stop glaring at the lady. I don't understand this attitude; they don't mind instigation, but they don't like confrontation.
Ah well. Just a few things I need to get used to I suppose. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone.